I have often berated you for all the things I thought you did wrong in raising me. Since our relationship over the years has fluctuated between close and very distant, it has been easy to find fault with your decisions. I have made it very clear that I was not happy. But as we have our space from each other again (and we both know that the quality of our relationship has been in inverse proportion to how close we live to each other), I am coming to see just how many things you did right for me. I keep hearing myself saying, “Oh, my mom taught me …” and I am seeing now just how ungrateful I have been. Continue reading →
I have been struggling with my blog over who owns whom lately. I have been doing a lot of work on my relationship with myself over the last year and my priorities have shifted. I am now taking more time to do things that I enjoy, especially time that I have previously used to zone out online reading clickbait from Facebook. I have come to value my time more and be more productive. My house has gotten into better shape as I have kept up on the chores better, I have been publishing this blog three times a week, and I have picked up my crafting again. Continue reading →
Today I struggled with coming up with a topic for today’s post. I started my day by opening up a bill in excess of $1000 that I was totally not expecting. That put me in a sour mood, so I put off writing. I wanted an authentic gratitude post, not one that felt forced. I went about my day, washing dishes, knitting a Christmas present, supervising kids after school, and then attending E’s and A’s school concert. Eventually, I realized that my inspiration for today was that my son is a very kind-hearted and generous boy. Continue reading →
When I first started Thankful Thursday on my blog, I never gave thought to the fact that Thanksgiving is the ultimate Thankful Thursday. I did not write my post ahead of time, and I have just come back from a delightful day with my in-laws. Today I am thankful for my family – my family of origin, my family by marriage, and my family by choice. Continue reading →
I know I’ve been thankful for my church before, but it is such a fabulous place that I have new reasons to be thankful this week. This past Sunday I had the opportunity to preach the sermon. It was an unforgettable experience. Sunday service is so different from behind the pulpit than it is from the pews. Continue reading →
This is a post that I have been writing for some time now. I wanted to write it, but I worried that it might be too painful for my friends and readers who are not as fortunate in this area of life as I am. I decided that I am going to go ahead and publish it now because it is a gratitude that I carry every day. If I always wait for a better time, it will never be done. Therefore, today I am so very grateful for my husband. I know that sounds corny and cliché, but I am. I haven’t always had a great marriage, as I alluded to in a previous post. Having had two disastrous marriages has made me really appreciate a healthy relationship. And so I want to celebrate my husband today. Continue reading →
If you know me at all, you know I am not super organized, despite all my desire to be. You also know that I have a ton of stuff to keep track of. I am down to four kids still at home, but they are active, so I need some way to manage my time. Today for Thankful Thursday I want to share my gratitude for Flylady’scalendar. No, I do not receive anything for this post. I just love this tool and want you to know about the freedom it has given me. Continue reading →
Some weeks it is really easy to find things to be grateful for. Other weeks I spend waiting for inspiration to strike with that one Wow! moment that just screams to be shared. I end up on Wednesday night thinking, ‘I know I have lots to be grateful for, so why can’t I write anything?’ This is one of those latter weeks. I could ooh and ahh over the beautiful sunsets, or the fact that I have actually been getting enough sleep this week for a change. I could gush about school being back in session or about more personal things that I’m just not ready to share publicly yet. So here I am on Wednesday night racking my brain to come up with something to be truly and deeply grateful for. Continue reading →
I drive a 1999 Chevy Suburban. I got it because it seats 8 and still has cargo room. Even without the cargo room, I would have gotten it because there just aren’t many vehicles that can carry a family of 8 all at once. I was resigned to becoming That Car, but Suburbans are ubiquitous around here. My husband drives a 2003 Saturn. Both cars are teenagers and have 150-200k miles on them. They have both served this family very well.
It’s Thursday again, which means it is time to count our blessings. Today I am especially thankful for the great abundance of black raspberries that surround our property. We live in the middle of our rural town on 3/4 of an acre (that is a whole other post for another week), and a good 75% or more of the perimeter is bordered by black raspberry canes. So far I have picked a total of 12 quarts, plus two that my mother came over and picked. We’re not done yet, and I have neglected picking for a couple of days now. Overload has set in.